Wednesday, June 29th, 2011 | Adopting Devils
It’s Sam’s tenth birthday! It was a spectacular one…about which, more, with photos, anon.
It’s also Rory’s “family day,” and that’s what I want to talk about.
For “family day,” we did nothing.
Not that Sam would mind. He wouldn’t, not at all. But I am not, and never have been, sure how to mark the day when Rory both lost and gained her family. I did say something–to her, and to everyone, about it (just to point it out, really), but that’s it.
But there were other signs that it was on minds. I said something to Lily today about her “finding it hard to share and being stuck with a family that shares a lot,” and Rory piped up: “And then you add me your family!” I assured her that it was her family too, and she agreed. At some other point she mentioned me coming to China to get her, too.
And Lily–Lily demanded, at some point today when Rory didn’t come get in a picture quickly, that it be “just the original Seelig family!”
I don’t think Rory heard her. Usually I would jump down her throat for something like that, but… I didn’t want to make a big deal.
I think Lily still holds mixed feeling about “family day,” too…Rory hides hers, but I know they’re there. I think I need to do something more to acknowledge the whole thing (maybe and move it to the day we arrived home, to get it away from Sam’s birthday). Work in Progress…
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